A Disclaimer

"Abuse" is a powerful word. Yet fitting. Some of the cruelest forms of abuse are invisible, hidden, covert and ambient. I am not a professional but I have de-coded the mind invading games of abusive people. Though I don't intend on making light of this subject, one has to have perspective when realizing how ridiculous the games are. Like the little man behind the curtain of OZ, once you strip away the ruse, YOU get your power back. If you can catch it while it's happening, you can avoid becoming brainwashed and a target to these types of people.

This site is for ANYONE who has suffered from an psychological abuser...and even those who ended up being abused in more overt or physical ways. Anyone who needs healing, of any sex, color, age, creed, background or culture. It doesn't matter if you dated, were married to, related to or worked for....anyone who's been abused this way can benefit. Abuse is not a "female" problem. It is a HUMAN problem.


"WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM."-Maya Angelou

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robert bonfils, 1960

21.12.09

You MUST KNOW THIS


You didn’t ASK for it.
You didn’t “let it” happen
You didn’t “choose” this
You didn’t “want” this
You didn’t “deserve” this
There isn’t anything “wrong” with you
You are not “crazy”
You are not “psycho”
You are not “weak”
You are not “stupid”
You are not a “fool”
You have nothing to be ashamed of, or embarrased by. HE DOES.
You are not "fucked up"
You are not a "slut" a "whore" a "tease"
You are not a "bad person"
You are not "evil"
You are not "ugly" "fat" "worthless" "conniving" "difficult"
You are not a doormat
You are not "silly" "dumb" "ridiculous" "disturbed"
You are not "man hating" "vindictive" "bitter" "cold"
You do not have "issues"-nothing close to like he does
You don't need a therapist as much as you need an exorcist after him
You don't "hate yourself"
You have been brainwashed
You have been manipulated because you ARE:
Beautiful.
Sexy.
Caring.
Smart.
Talented.
Creative.
Loving.
Giving.
Forgiving.
Compassionate.
Empathetic.
Open.
Honest.
Real.
Special.
Human.
And yes, you ARE a BITCH...Babe In Total Control of Herself!

And that's why he picked YOU.
You ARE WORTH MORE THAN THIS.

2 comments:

  1. I love this. A lot of this I can relate to, I didnt even realize... my gawd Im so sick of all this!!

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  2. That's why I'm doing this. I've been hearing this a lot..."Finally, a NAME to what I experienced." I'm sick of it all, too...sick of them getting away with it! Hugs!

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